When a person is killed by an abusive partner, domestic violence takes center stage. However, after a few days, the topic often fades into the background for many.
This raises the question: “Are most people truly committed to instigating change?” From what I’ve observed, some individuals exploit the dramatization of physical violence on social media and television to garner attention and further their political agendas, such as advocating for gun control. I don’t disregard the fact that statistics show women are five times more likely to be killed in domestic violence situations when guns are present.
While I agree that gun control is necessary, simply not owning a gun won’t eliminate abuse. Some abusers resort to killing their partners without firearms. Thus, focusing solely on gun control during the immediate aftermath of a domestic violence-related death minimizes the victim’s experience.
Media outlets, both social and news, play a crucial role in shaping public perception during these crises. Merely providing contact numbers or links related to domestic violence isn’t sufficient. They should define domestic violence and its manifestations or interview experts to educate the public. Just as parents use crises to teach their children valuable lessons, the media can seize these moments to raise awareness about abuse dynamics.
Consideration for the safety, both physical and psychological, of victims and their families is paramount. Inviting victims to share their stories in the early stages of recovery may exacerbate fear and anger. Media dramatization of domestic violence often lacks responsibility, failing to educate viewers or offer actionable solutions. Survivors watching such portrayals may experience heightened fear, shame, and humiliation without receiving the necessary support or resources.
True change requires more than talk; it demands action. Organizations with political and financial resources should support advocates working tirelessly to combat domestic violence. These organizations should also prioritize funding for initiatives aiming to change laws and hold perpetrators accountable.
Domestic violence awareness should not be confined to an annual event or limited to instances of tragedy. Yet, even during dedicated awareness months, events organized by passionate advocates often see low attendance. The media can be pivotal in educating the public and connecting survivors with resources for physical safety and emotional healing.
In essence, the media holds a critical responsibility in advancing domestic violence awareness, advocating for victims, and aiding survivors in their journey toward healing and justice.
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